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Subject: help me
Posted by shiva
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 at 04:52:30
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i am 40 years.i was living with man around 7 years and i spend all my time for him and for his children i was commitment to him ,be honest to him ,anything i could do i done for him and his life and his business ...but months ago i found he was cheating on me and he had fair with other woman and after that we had fight and he forced me to go away beat me and insalt me .finally i got tierd and i came out of house with no money and no where to go ,,,i came to my mom house with shame .and i got deppresed,,2 months i work on my self to get better read bible and pray and talk to god and i want to start my new life with no money and i want god get my revenge on him . and i wane god help me to start my new life as right way .
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Posted by KellyB
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 at 07:18:13
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I do not believe God will not help you get revenge, just start over and put the past in the past and focus on the present. You are in control of your own happiness.
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Posted by KellyB
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 at 07:22:44
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I may have stated this wrong, what I was trying to say Is I don't think God will get revenge for you. Sorry, for the confusion, I confuse myself as well :~)
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Posted by Starseed
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 at 10:27:51
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Hello Shiva
Welcome to Angel Doorway.
223=Call upon the ascended masters to help you stay strong...do NOT fall into traps of negativity...as it is your faith that will help heal you right now.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
-Confuscius
And know that the Christ energy / God will be with you, each step that you take, as you search for happiness within (yourself) & not without (others).
As Above
So Below
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Posted by shiva
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 at 14:40:29
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i know god dont belive revenge but i'm trying to start my new life and forget my past but i can't and all the time he and all lie and cheating he done to me coming to my mind and so many bad things he done to me ,,,insalt me he embrased me front of society and now he is living his life with that woman and have fun and he enjoy his life he doing his business and he get more sucessful he is going high but i am going down ,i fell loser ...several time in my mind i wane go to kill him and her ...and disturb him ,,,but after that beacuse i respect to myslef i try to forget but all night i can not sleep my mind full of hate,anger, negative point and all these memory dont let me to move on to my life ,,, but i cant ,,i know i am wasting my life should forget and forgive but i can not...
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Posted by KellyB
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 at 15:39:38
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Time will heal the wounds, trust me I know all about the anger and revenge that you are feeling. Just keep asking God to help you and he will. What goes around comes around however, you need not take part in it.
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Posted by coralbea
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 at 18:57:45
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Welcome Shiva,
Well the very best revenge you can have on this person is to pick your self up let go of all the negative stuff and be the very best you can be and I know that you are an extraordinary person and soul because of the experience you chose to have.
Shiva we all decide what lessons we need to learn from this Human existance. We make a contract with God to come here and do this. You chose to experience humiliation, anger, degredation, infidelity, embarrasment and hate and what ever else you experienced. Yes you did a great job of experiencing what these emotions feel like and now the lessons have taken a different turn. Now it is your turn to learn from these lessons, take out the positive things and let go of the negative things. Maybe out of all of this your main Lessons will be forgiveness and self value??
You want revenge right??? Well I can understand that. But I also know that what you put out into the universe comes back to you. So you do not want to be putting out thoughts of anger and hatred and wanting this person to be hurt because that will all come back to you 10 fold. No the best revenge, if you want to call it that, you can have is a very positive one Learn to love yourself again and be the best you can be. Forget about depression it is not a physical illness but an emotional one and only if you let it, it is a state of mind and you can change your mind anytime you want!! so you need to decide if you are going to be victim or survivor. Make that decision right now. I am hoping it is survivor.
Next you need to forgive him. I know you think you never could so let me help you look at this in another way.
When you decided as a soul to incarntate as a human you wrote out your list of things to do. Ok so we know that you needed all these experiences to get to the forgiveness and self value lessons.
Now someone had to help you to learn these things. Your ex, As a soul, loves you so much that he was willing to help you learn what you needed to learn for the growth of your spirit.
Up goes his hand and he volunteers to be the person to help you.
All this is done because you are so very loved on a soul level.
God watches over us all knowing how hard we have made our journey and I am sure that he cries for us too when it all becomes too much, but because of the universal law of Free Will he cannot come to us and take our stuff away, we have to do it ourselves.
So to grow in spirit and learn the lessons you have worked so hard to have, forgiveness will set you free and let you move on to the next level.
Think about this Shiva, If you dwell in the past and relive the hurts over and over never letting go and go to that dark place called depression, you dishonour God because you made a contract with him and you are dishonouring yourself more.
Forgive the soul, and thank the experiences, let it all go to God anf the angels and then move to the next level.
What have you always wanted to do but never got to do it? Start looking for your soul Purpose.
It is time to get to know your self and love your self and then when you love yourself completely you don't NEED anyone, so the people you have in your life are there because you WANT them to be. Put a large value on your self Shiva you are an extraordinary soul.
I can't stress this enough,, only believe and take that which rings true to YOU, not because I or anyine else says so, you know what is best for you so connect to your higher self and ask, then listen. You said you are praying alot, that is good, but do you then be quiet and hear Gods anwers? Learning to meditate will be a great help to finding your self.
When you pray you talk to God and when you Meditate you listen to him talking.
All Love and Light to you Shiva
Helen
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