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Subject: Looking for answers
Posted by me
Friday, February 23, 2007 at 09:25:29
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How do I know when a relationship has come to an end. If we keep going around in circles, what does this mean. Should the relationship end or should we continue to fight for it. My husband and I have been married for almost 14 years and seperated twice, he feels that after a very bad time lately we should seperate again, so that each has time. He does not want a divorce, I do not want to be apart but to continue trying. I do love him, he says he loves me but is not sure is he is stupidly in love with me. How do I know what is correct - I have always felt that my mission in life is my family and bringing my husband to see life in a beautiful way and not what it was for him as a child. How do I know if I should just let go.......
I have been requesting help from the Angels and Saints and do not feel that I have an answer yet.......
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Posted by Starseed
Friday, February 23, 2007 at 16:23:45
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Me...
I think that we have all been there, at one point or another in life, myself included. And though we may think that we do not hear or see the angels and Saints, or at least in a way that we expect to, we know that they are always there helping us...especially whenever we need it most...as it is their sacred honor.
But, do any of us really know what we are doing when it come to love? Yes and No. I have always found it best to let my heart guide me on the right path of my journey...to do what is truly right for me and my family. I have also learned through my own journey that I can not truly love another until I truly love myself...as we are all connceted. It is our faith and love that keep us in our heart center.
Where ever you are led...whatever you do...may God guide you steps, the Angels & Saints guide your journey, and your heart guide your soul.
As Above
So Below
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Posted by KB
Friday, February 23, 2007 at 18:39:11
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I've always been one screwed up cookie when it comes to love LOL. Glad you are here with us.
Love and Light
Kelly
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Posted by Coralbea
Saturday, February 24, 2007 at 14:14:57
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Hi all. Me you say that you have been married for 14 years and to quote "I have always felt that my mission in life is my family and bringing my husband to see life in a beautiful way and not what it was for him as a child."
Has your husband come to see life as you would like him to see?
I have been married for 20 years and I felt the same. My husband also had an awful childhood and when ever there were problems that was always used as a reason, excuse an eplanation as to why he acted the way he did. 3 years ago I had enough! If after 19 years of being together he could not see that I was not like his mother and I did not treat our children the way she treated hers and I did not abandon them for days on end like she did etc. I was not his mother. If he could not see that after all this time together it was not my fault. I had tried my best I knew that, but enough was enough. People are responsible for their own happiness and if they do not want to move on but stay in their comfort zone that is their choice.
Me, if you sit down and really look at your relationship and be honest about it you will know the answer in your heart.
I have always thought that if a relationshiop makes you sob or extremely unhappy any more than once a year it is not healthy for you.We all have ups and downs but I think you know what sort of sobbing I mean!
Maybe the purpose to the relationship has come to an end and it is time to move forward for your own spiritual growth. Sit quietly and ask these questions of your higher self or the angels You will hear the answer soon enough and then of course it is up to you what you do with the information.
I wish you all the luck in the world. You need to look after you!!
Thank fully after many many talks my husband now realises that he had to move past his past. It is slow because old thought patterns die hard especially when your ego gets in the way to stop you. But he is making progress and doing it with support but not help from me. I have given enough already. Selfish!! you may say but I say self preservation!!
May you always walk in harmony with your angels and guides
Love and LIght Helen
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Posted by ME
Monday, February 26, 2007 at 04:16:12
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Dearest Coralbea
Thanks for your words, I really do not want my husband to see life as I want him to see it .... I would like my husband to see life for himself as it is and not as he convinces himself (ie: a place where he is really loved by myself and his daughter and not out there in the night where nothing gives him joy or peace). I think for all of the us one of the greatest pains we feel are LOVE PAINS, could this be because one of the only things that really matter in this life is LOVE. I feel that we all need to give unconditionally but I feel it hard not to also receive.
I know the Angels and Saints are always around us, helping but when our despair is great the distance is infinite.
To all that are here - beautiful light hugs
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